2010-09-14
Parental Supervision Is Must......?
The school provides a restricted and controlled environment in which a student is constantly supervised and checked by his teachers and other classmates. It is at home where he gets unrestricted and uncontrolled freedom. It depends on Parents how much they have blind faith on their wards.
Generally, students are caught in school telling lie, stealing, bullying, speaking non-sense in front of girl students. They don't hesitate to bunk out of classes and school. As they don't fear from teachers. Today, corporal punishment is banned. In the name of corporal punishment, teachers hesitate even to touch a student. Parents attitude towards teachers is also damaging..... teachers are not allowed even to use harsh words..... Resultant.... students are becoming more and more undisciplined and aggressive.... they want their demands are fulfilled instantly.... they are unable to control their desires.... they can go to any extreme. Parents have started fearing from the own wards......!!!
Now, under such conditions, Parents have to come forward to control their off springs....
In my school, i found students bunking out and assembling in a house to watch vulgar movies and return home when the school is off. They were caught and suspended. Parents came to their rescue..... Students copy and caught.... parents come to their rescue. Students use filthy and obscene remarks to girls .... they are suspended.... but parents come to their rescue.... students are caught for rash driving... parents come to their rescue. Students are caught bringing cell phone to school, they are suspended.... parents come to rescue them. Now latest.... students are caught indulging in cyber crimes.... parents are there to protect them....
Spare your time to supervise your kids. Once you empower your child to use technology i.e. cell phone,computer/net, TV/video etc. you must ensure that this technology is not misused. Supervise the use of cell phone.... read the contents of sms.... get details of frequency of numbers dialled or received and the duration of cell phone use...... If you have provided computer with net, learn/know how to use/find out the contents of chatting/email etc. Keep a watch whether in the name of making projects.... you child may be watching porn sites simultaneously with 'so-called projects'.... and what about your child's company.... someone has rightly said ' if you want to know a person, look at his company' it is true with your child also. See his friends, their upbringing, their conduct and behaviour.... Go near the tuition centre where you child is also there.... hide somewhere.... watch out his conduct with his other friends..... You will come to know the real picture. GOOD LUCK ....!!!
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